The Mission of Transformation!?

The seven truths that lead me to a life I don’t want to leave.

It took over fifty years to live it out and two years to write it but today, on my sixtieth birthday, I’m happy to share my journey with you.sixty-and-two

I had to unravel a serious emotional, mental, and religious knot. My dad abandoned me and I had three stepfathers by the time I was nine. I was raised in an ultra conservative religion and yet conformity didn’t set me free.

I searched and searched, good places and bad, but the pain never stopped until, that one moment in time when everything changed. I’m fortunate. I can pinpoint the time, place, and circumstances that marked my transformation. It was only the beginning but I would never be the same. book-promo-pic

I didn’t know what being wanted felt like. I had no sense of worthiness. Any uniqueness existed in my eternal defect. Things don’t last. I didn’t know where I belonged. With no clarity, and the absence of my identity I roamed into hyper-masculinity and developed approval addiction.

When my grandson dropped out of heaven I became a man!

master-book-release-picRead the whole real life story, with the ugly left in, and hope for us all!

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An Amazing Two Years!

What I thought would be two months turned into two years. As I approach the final days until my book is released I have a number of thoughts and emotions swirling in and around me. I am very thankful. And, apprehensive. A book that lays out many details of your life can be disconcerting and yet authenticity is required to be of value.

The early reviews have been more positive than I ever dreamed. Strong and encouraging with a consensus of timeliness and accuracy. I’m more than thankful.

Some Early Reviews

“Rick’s amazing book is a heartfelt love letter from God to the world. Whether you have a relationship with your biological father or not, Rick’s true story of his journey from abandonment to his understanding that God is our Father and that love is a decision will touch you and impact all of your relationships. Rick’s book should be required reading for all fathers.”

Kevin Knebl, CMEC – Int’l Speaker/Author/Trainer/ Executive Coach and the Co-Author of “The Social Media Sales Revolution: The New Rules for Finding Customers, Building Relationships, and Closing More Sales Through Online Networking” (McGraw-Hill)

This isn’t just a novel it’s a journey. Rick takes you with him through the muck and mire while showing glimpses of the deepest imaginable love. It isn’t just a book for the “fatherless,” but a book for anyone struggling to find their own worth or hold on to it. It’s easy to get lost in our busy and socially overwhelming world, but Rick’s book is like a map to guide you. The love he feels for his grandson is one we all strive to reach. The love he feels from his God is one people have missed, lost or constantly seek and you learn, from Rick’s experience that it wasn’t an easy path of awareness or acceptance. Read this. You’ll find yourself.

Jennifer Duggins founder of Bohemian Gypsy Girl, LLC, and author of Facing Giants and other works.

Rick’s story will start any reader down a path of healing, especially those who are fatherless, by helping them expose the lies in the mind and allowing them to see the truth. We have a fatherless world and so much pain stems from that problem. My prayer is that this book will add momentum to the movement rallying to help solve this problem. This book is well written and captured my attention right from the start. Well done, Rick! Thank you for your openness and transparency to help others find what you have found, even in the pain.

Ford Taylor Founder FSH Group/Transformational Leadership, Co-Author “The Hike” The Missing Link to Transformational leadership

As someone who in not an avid reader, I could not put this book down. I found myself laughing and crying and wanting to hug and salute Rick for the courage it took to live a painful story and now share it. This book is a powerfully vivid and reflective journey inviting the senses and emotions of the reader. It encapsulates suffering in its rawest form giving insight into an intense personal and painful reality of hurt, misunderstanding, hope, and healing.

Dr. Sandy Ingle, PhD    Clinical Psychologist and Counselor

COMING SOON!

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I’m on a mission to help people find Identity, Affirmation, and Clarity in a world that so carelessly strips it all away.

 

If Only I Had A Dad!

Finding Freedom From Fatherlessness!

Papa, how come I don’t have a dad in our family?

I tried to prepare for the day this question might be asked. I knew all the love and attention we gave him would not alleviate the emptiness he would feel inside. It’s a good question with perhaps only insufficient answers.

I did my best to explain families come in all shapes and sizes. I seemed to satisfy him, in the moment. The next day he said, Papa! When you grow up you can be my dad. All I could manage was; Thank you. I would love that.

My mind is so aware of my lifelong struggle for identity. My grandson is a candidate to live with many of the same calamities I experienced. My turbulent beginning and chaotic journey made me determined to do everything I could to provide a different life experience for him.

The story of my grandson and me might make you uncomfortable. Even squirm, a little, if you have never been loved by a father-figure. You might even think it’s not possible for such affection and commitment to pass between two souls. I assure you, you can be loved in the same manner. Our story is intended to show you how.

COMING SOON!

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